Vector Relationships, Pure Romance, Marriages & More
Bazi Elements, Psychology, Relationships & more ...
This is somewhat controversial theory based on Chinese Bazi & iChing system by Russian mathematician and astrologer Kvasha.
The reason I believe in it, because I personally tested both "Full Vector" (lasted 4 years) & "Romantic" Half-Vector marriage (lasted 20 years until death). Both very much true to it's original psychological description. I will translate the original, but this is always better to understand in Russian Language.
There are 5 main types of marriage all people can get into:
Vector Marriage - This union is usually either Karmic Predisposition or an accident, a mystery, or Pandora's box, a breakthrough into the fourth dimension, or something else like that. It is hardly a peaceful union. Sometime, it is unbreakable.
Equal Marriage - An equal marriage can only be called a union in which the spouses have the same type of thinking.
Romantic Marriage - Fall in love quickly, live beautifully, do not hide love from people, love separation - the reason for joyful dates, always remain as bride and groom.
Spiritual Marriage - Union, in which the types of thinking of both spouses are mutually complementary.
Patriarchal Marriage - The ideal situation for entering into a patriarchal marriage is a mutual desire to prolong the family line.
Here is a little bit about each.
Personally from my experience, Vector is just abnormal combination of mental energies between two or sometimes three people.
They can not help it either. They experience periods of absolute attraction, almost impossible to resist, that exchanges with periods of complete disregard & irritation with each other. Bipolar relationships is probably one way to describe it. And, actually both people act
& sometimes feel bipolar. You can not live without them, until you realize you are actually drowning. You know it's bad for you, but you keep dong it. It's the case of physical & chemical addiction toward each other. You love the person, but you can't feel happy. You don't
want to loose them, but afraid to speak the truth. It's like this person is a drug you have to have. Until you either break up or die. When it happens, the surviving party, even with all the sadness, still experiences some sense of relief that "it is over". And begins feeling normal. Only thing you probably will never want to get married again. Like never. This is the nature of the Vector relationships. As always in life, there are exceptions. Some people are just meant to be in Vector, children of the Vector Marriage parents, for example. They often feel better in their own Vector. And, Vector can be very productive & successful in Business, however, it has to be outside the intimate & private relationships.
Vector is a marriage that takes place between following signs:
Rat - Monkey *
Monkey * - Snake
Horse - Rat
Pig - Horse
Snake - Goat
Goat - Tiger
Tiger - Ox
Ox - Goat
Dog - Rooster
Rooster - Rabbit
Rabbit - Dragon
Dragon - Pig
In each listed pair, one sign is a "Servant", and second sign is "Master".
"Master" is the person who has
naturally more power of control
within the pair. Obviously "Servant"
role is like "the second assistant".
Sometimes, Vectors can exist
among siblings in a family.
They usually have biggest influence
on the lives of the parents.
Best way to describe this
relationships as "opposites attract".
It is either difference of 6 years
or one birth year BEFORE yours.
Couple, in which one partner born in
1969 & another in 1975, for example,
is a Vector. Rooster - Rabbit.
Or couple born in 1976 & 1975
also represents Vector. Dragon - Rabbit.
Bazi couple with the Rat & Monkey
in the Day Master, Hour or the Month branch also have a Vector. Rat - Monkey.
It is called the clash in Bazi.
If, for example, one partner was born
in the hour of Rabbit, while the other
in the month of the Dragon, they
also have a Vector Present & it will,
definitely, influence their relationship patterns, to some extend.
Remember, most people only look
at the year, when they consider the match. However, Vector can also be
hidden in the Bazi chart.
Always consider this for couples.
Patriarchal marriage is a marriage
that takes place between following
trinity of signs:
Tiger - Dog - Horse
Rabbit - Pig - Goat
Rat - Monkey - Dragon
Snake - Ox - Rooster
From the stand point of
Traditional Bazi this combination
is actually called the Self-Punishment.
Tiger - Tiger, Dog - Dog,
Horse - Horse, Rat - Rat, etc.
One exception is Rabbits. They do not possess the Self-Punishment rule.
It has to do with the Traditional Story
of the Astrological signs numerical position & partially old faith.
Rabbit, had sacrificed himself for everyone, & was given "an extra freedom".
Rabbits do not have
the Self-Punishment rule.
Patriarchal union is Only the union,
in which both spouses belong
to the same ideological trinity.
Spiritual is a marriage that takes place between following signs:
Rat - Rooster, Rat - Ox, Rat - Snake
Monkey - Rooster, Monkey - Ox
Dragon - Rooster, Dragon - Ox
Dragon - Snake, etc.
Spiritual marriage can be called a union, in which the types of thinking
of both spouses are mutually complementary: mysticism,
logic & realism.
Equal Marriage is the the union between the following signs:
Horse - Rooster, Horse - Snake,
Horse - Ox, Tiger - Rooster,
Tiger - Snake, Dog - Snake, etc.
Only union, in which the spouses
have the same type of thinking can be called an equal marriage.
Romantic is a marriage that takes place between following signs:
Goat - Ox, Goat - Rooster
Rabbit - Snake, Rabbit - Ox
Pig - Ox, Pig - Rooster, Pig - Snake, etc.
A romantic marriage can only
be called a union in which the difference between the years of
birth is a multiple of two, but not a multiple of four (2, 6, 10, 14, etc.)